Finding something unique and feminine can perplex the best of men. You want something unique, something special, something not too cheap and not to expensive, something they will be able use regularly.

With all that in mind, the last thing on a guys mind will be jewellery . Mere mention of the word makes a man think of diamonds and a heavy price tag. So why am I even mentioning jewellery. What are the guys missing?

Here's what many guys don't understand. It's the secret that can help you get what you lady loves without burning a hole in your pocket.

Women love jewellery. Yes they love the real thing, meaning if it's real diamond or gold that is always the first prize, but jewellery does not have to be made from real gold or diamonds to be loved by a lady. Women just have an appreciation for beautiful things, so if you can give you lady a piece of stunning costume jewellery they will be just as happy.

Many celebrities wear costume jewellery, take a look at any picture of an actress arriving at the Oscars and ten to one you will see that they are wearing Costume Jewellery. These fashion jewellery pieces are so beautiful and so real looking that they pass for the real thing and are even acceptable to celebrities. Costume or fashion jewells is now very popular with ladies and gents alike. Many costume jewellery peices are simply esquisite and have a look and feel that matches fine jewellery. Some jewellery peices are difficult to distinguish from the real thing.

There are rings, necklaces, pendants, bracelets, bangles, earrings from stick-on to hoops. You can even find body jewellery like belly bars, eyebrow rings and toe rings. The range of jewellery pieces and their design is enough to "bedazzel" anyone.

The beauty of giving jewellery to your special lady is that jewellery is timeless. So fella's it's not the price; it's the style that determines whether your gift of jewellry is received in the same spirit in which it is given. Aim to give her jewelry that delights, something that matches her own special and unique style.

Jewellery is one area where you cannot give a gift that you would love to own. Your idea of a fashionable pendant may not be her idea of something she would wear.

Simple attention to details such as whether the jewellery piece is intended for casual or formal wear, traditional or contemporary, or matching a piece of clothing she already owns and loves, can have a big impact on showing how much love and thought was put into your jewellery gift.

Sean Wheller is the founder of fashion and costume jewellery website Jewellery For Sale offering fashion and Costume Jewellery for women and men for all occasion.

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