It's a scare going to meet your partner's parents. Even though he tells you that his mom and dad are very nice people and that they understand parents, you can't help but feel nervous. You get goose bumps even by just thinking about it. Who wouldn't be? It's your first time meeting the two most important people in your partner's life and you don't have a clue what their reaction is. They may have heard of you because your partner must have told them about you, but you don't know what they are thinking.

So your partner tells you that his parents invited you for a dinner at their house. What do you do? What should you expect?
Be your best. Take in deep breaths and don't panic. They'll know notice that you're nervous if you are sweating and your hands are shaking. When he introduced you to his parents, smile and shake their hands. Make sure that your hands are not sweating. You'll immediately know what his parents' reaction is during your first meeting. You will know whether they like you or not.

His parents will of course ask you about you and your partner and your relationship. Answer truthfully. And when you talk, look at them in the eye. It will give them the message that you're an honest person and that you're telling the truth. It is important for them because they don't want their son to get involved with someone whom they don't trust.

Try to make the conversation light. If the topic is very serious, make light comments. The first conversation with his parents is important because they will make their first impression of you based on that talk.

If the parents don't like you, don't talk much. They might not take it lightly if you talk so much. But don't let them manipulate the conversation.

Expect to be questioned. They don't know you but they know that you are involved in a relationship with their son. It is their right to know who's with their son. Don't be surprised if they ask you questions as if they are investigating you. Try to answer all of their questions. This will show them that you are honest. They will probably ask you questions about your family background, childhood, educational background or career. It's like an oral comprehensive resume.

Smile all the time, even if they don't like you. No matter what happens, at least you tried to be civil to them, if not friendly. They can't accuse of being ill mannered. Smiling also will keep the atmosphere happy.

Most of all show respect to his parents. If you treat other people well, they will also treat you with the same respect.

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